A wise man once told me, “if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it at all.” That very wise man, who happens to be my father, also taught me that once you say something … you can never take it back. This might be the reason I have pretty good filters and also why I am so sensitive to harsh, unkind, and unwanted words (whether written or spoken). So before you speak I will teach you a simple visual example. On the left is a plain white piece of paper while on the right a crumpled piece of white paper. Image the plain paper is a person prior to the impact of another…